Friday 26 May 2017

HOW ABOUT I GIVE YOU CAKE AND COFFEE?



PRODUCTIVITY PLUS CAKE & COFFEE MORNING



The Productivity Plus Cake & Coffee morning, is an interactive session for networking, building relationships and delving into the keys to a Productive Plus Life. It’s for leaders to improve and build those relationships and connections crucial to their professional and personal life while also sharing ideas on productivity.

Sometimes changing your environment and discussing with people with different perspectives gives your creativity a boost and allows you to come up with solutions that eluded you back at the office. Also creating a productive workplace is integral for a corporation to increase their profits and to thrive in today’s economy. The cake & coffee morning provides such an environment.

At the 3rd of June session, we will introduce the Productivity Plus Group Coaching programme which has contributed a lot to the Life and Performance of the Coachee who participated in the ongoing programme. We will discuss the program outcomes and the frequency of our interactions. You will also get a deep dive into our new and ever transformative Productivity Plus Planner, a great accountability tool for high performance.

Of course, we must not leave out our tasty and inviting “Kiniyidun” cakes. We look forward to seeing you!! 

Date:   3rd June 2017
Time:  10am (prompt) to 12noon
The Productive Plus Planner: 3,500
Venue: The Development Centre, Plot 28 Blk 113, Oladimeji Alo Street Opposite VFS Global,
Lekki Phase 1.

To book your place, please contact us on 08169116806, 08024618033, and 07030000292 and/or by email at abi@abilonge.com or productivityplus@abilonge.com.

For more information about Productivity Plus, please visit www.abilonge.com


YOU MADE ME TASTE THE DISTANCE




When you told me you had to go, I asked myself " does this always have to happen to me?"


Do I at some point have to feel this ache of letting go or what really is my issue? You don't let me do enough for you and it makes me feel like you don't really want much from me. 



Maybe no one ever expects much from me but I had hoped you'd be different.

No one sees their importance through my eyes but how about my actions are they blind too?

But for how much I am ready to sacrifice anything for you, do you not see it?


A day without you is like a day without the sun.
It's like a torment to my life.
It is a
soak of sorrow to my heart.





You'd be gone a week and when you return I hope you wont go again.
This one time, I'd manage.
This one time, I'd endure.

It doesn't look like I can because humanly I can't.

But I'd cope.





SO, I'D WAIT...



You can't control both the good and bad things that happens in life but you van control how you take it. Being away from someone who you care so much about is quite painful but sometimes there is little we can do about it. But one lesson I have learned from this is, if you cant do without somebody for a few days, you should try to keep them forever. "Protect them so much that even sickness won't snatch them away from you" 

Who have you missed so much? Share with us your story :)

Wednesday 17 May 2017

THE THING ABOUT LOVE



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Hey guys!

I know I should be punished for such long vacation I granted myself that kept me away from writing to you and I apologize.
My job hunt wasn’t a joke at all because I had searched till I almost gave up at least not my ghost.
So here I am again with my talk about love!!!

And so, there is a story about some guy that I fell in love with. Yes, still very much in love with.
I was afraid to scare him away with all my needs. I am referring to every girls’ regular needs you know; emotional needs, material needs (yes! I need to keep looking sexy) insecurity needs and many more. From my past relationships, I had carried so much burden and I wondered how he was going to cope. I was afraid that before I get to heal he would’ve taken the back door. Unknowingly he had sworn to himself to make things work.

I didn’t think I deserved it, but I knew it’d be worth it.
One thing I want you to always remember is that, “when someone loves you, they’d do anything.”
And something I’ve realized in this journey with him is that “love makes you capable of handling anything.”

He was ready to handle everything, he was going to work day and night if that was what it took to make me happy.

He was ready and I was ready and that’s just about what it takes. If erasing all my needs would keep us in love I was ready to do that.

My word to you today is that; If you ever truly love somebody just go ahead and be with them because every other thing will fall in place.
It definitely will.

Money isn’t love. Love will cause you to work hard and earn money.


Tuesday 9 May 2017

LET PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES

I am ashamed of you.

Your quietness on me had my hopes high that you knew indeed that I was in control of this but until the day you let loose your lips you blew off my confidence in what you understand about me.

Maturity isn't by age, for a good age is only but two figures. Many wise men didn't make three figures, so no matter how much knowledge you've got, it doesn't just depend on your age but your experiences... 

It's saddening but not so surprising that you know not an inch about me. It's only because I have refused to let you know me. 

Still, I'm not convinced to let you know. 

But I'd like you to know that I'm not in danger and not endangered. Silly opportunity you had to witness my mess doesn't give you right to sail my boat. 
I paddled it all along and I still can.

Don't forget.

Days when I had to lie to cover you up to catch your fun, I did.
I never for once thought I had to cry out for help on your becoming.
Well in defense, you could choose to say you never had it this worse. But to who does man tell everything to but God?

I let you do your things and make your mistakes which has earned you your wisdom. 

I beg you.
Let me be.


Sometimes, people should be allowed to makes their own mistakes and ruin their lives if they so want to. It wont be your wrong to let them be. Everyone deserves a right to own their lives.