Tuesday 31 December 2013

Why not beleive

There is always a way!
It might seem like never
Of course you will be hurt
But am sure, am certain
there is a solution
There is a God He never lies
Have you asked him what he is saying about you?
Stop Assuming...

Monday 30 December 2013

THE EXPECTED

People say expect the unexpected
So what is the expected?
When what you are expecting is the unexpected
Yes anything can happen
but what is it you are expecting?
If anything can happen where you expecting anything?
If you are expecting something
then yes! something can happen
Expect the expected!

Wednesday 25 December 2013

Merry Christmas Friends!!

Today is Christmas day and all i can share with you is love!
                     What Is Love??
Love is the strongest bond that is capable of attracting and pulling people together
notwithstanding the situations at hand
Love is onething that can be destroyed only by distrust and doubts after a while of intimacy
Love is prone to die when there are evil assumptions
Love is trusting despite all odds
Love is believing that there is a way out of every situation one is facing
Together with love you can turn things around to suite you
Love is something that your hearts can build no matter how far
your hearts are,they would find a way.
To live you must be loved, because if you love to live then you must live to love!!

it is Christmas share the love ...

MY beloved ^-^

You must probably be sometimes mad at me
I sometimes get confused about us and put you off
But the truth is that no matter how far i run
I always run into you

I know how much you care about me and you are actually
not sure if I do
My problem is that am scared to get hurt

Yes you have promised me the whole world
and even in the world you've promised me am still not sure
all I ask is that you stay...

My beloved you would always be my beloved
because it is only you that shows me what it is
and how it feels to "be loved"
Jessica Oyekanmi

Tuesday 24 December 2013

MISTAKES

Make mistakes now but don't keep it out of sight and understanding
Make mistakes now and be sure never to make them again
Make mistakes now so that someday somehow when anyone wants walks up to you to ask you;
Who are you and where you want to be, you would tell them in confidence who you really are and where you really want to be









Monday 23 December 2013

FOUNDATION

Then we have to know what a foundation is...
   FOUNDATION
-A beginning
-A start
-A creation
-An establishment one puts in effort to give rise to a desire
-Foundation is a stronghold depending on the builder
 A proper foundation is a permanent existence...
GO AHEAD AN MAKE ONE!

Not being Perfect

most people dont realize how badly their mistakes go...
some others realize and wana make it up
some others are not ready to take bullshits
some others are not ready to change.

no one is perfect and yes not even me...
we are bound to make mistakes
people say not all mistakes are pardonable but yes they are!
let me tell u how
-we move on
-we meet new people
-and yes we forget about them and their mistakes...

whats best is knowing who they really are

TodaYs TaLK

Everyone has that right to be gorgeous and look stunning!
It is not hard to look nice, it is only easier to mix it up
In Fashion You
-shouldn't be scared of colors nor scared to try
-don't mind what the next person thinks
-don't be excessively colorful
-dare to try-!

now take a look at yourself do u look nice?
are u making a point?
if not try again
if yes wear the look with confidence

Sunday 22 December 2013

FaME

Fame is not just a necessity of life
Fame is neither an option in life Fame is just an evidence of the hard ends of people
Fame is not just an evidence of the hard ends of people
Fame simply determines where you are and how good you can make use of where you are...
 Jessica Oyekanmi

Saturday 21 December 2013

Miley Just Released the Album Art for "Adore You" and You're Going to Be Shocked when You See It

Courtesy of Getty Images
Last week, Miley Cyrus announced that "Adore You" will be the third single off her sizzling hot Bangerz album. And while the song's official radio debut is still a few weeks away, she's already hinted at what the music video might look like-last night our Queen of Surprises Instagrammed the album art, and there's not a house party nor a construction tool nor a crop top in sight. This time, the boundary-pushing megastar is letting us see her softer side. See for yourself below!
Just like the love-laden track, it's totally sweet and romantic, but has a hint of melancholy, too. Swapping her signature bright red lip for a demure pastel hue, Miley poses with a bouquet of pink roses-AKA, the international symbol of "be mine." But instead of fresh, pristine blooms, the petals have already started to wilt and turn brown. The image has a faded effect, giving it a vintage kind of vibe. And it's not emblazoned with any eye-catching graphics, either-the name of the song is simply spelled out in tiny white letters. Sure, it's a much more minimalist approach than we'd expect from the statement-making singer, but it sure is worth a thousand words. And if there's one thing Miley's great at, it's keeping us guessing.

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Courtesy of Miley Cryus via InstagramCourtesy of Miley Cryus via Instagram
The track itself is already a fan favorite (and top 10 song on iTunes), but it'll reach a whole new level of popularity once it officially takes over the radio on January 6. And while it's easy to speculate that the endearing slow jam will have an equally sentimental video to match, we're definitely not holding our breath-you just never know with this girl!

Fact!

Everyday we look forward to what we can do or what we can get why not what we can give?
Stop expecting surprises but you can keep an hope rising
When you relent you prevent so much!

People say don't doubt but reason
Trust but don't be a fool
believe but don't be blind
love but don't be??

The greatest speed is the urge
the best excuse is the truth
The best love is your trust

Temptation would surely come but it wont make a choice for you
When you are tired you are less conscious of your trials
Great people don't ignore mistakes they account for it

TAKE OUT THE BOREDOM!!


IT IS CHRISTMAS PERIOD AND WE ALL WANT TO SHOW SOME LOVE....
You can try preparing some chocolate cakes for that very special person to you

Ingredients
  • 3 cups King Arthur Unbleached All-Purpose Flour
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 1/3 cup baking cocoa
  • 2 teaspoons baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 2 cups water
  • 3/4 cup vegetable oil
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 2 teaspoons white vinegar
 Directions
  1. In a large bowl, combine the first five ingredients. Add the water, oil, vanilla and vinegar; mix well (batter will be thin).
  2. Pour into a greased 13-in. x 9-in. baking pan. Bake at 350° for 25-30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool completely.
  3. For frosting, in a large bowl, beat cream cheese and butter until fluffy. Add the confectioners' sugar, cocoa, salt, milk and vanilla; mix well. Spread over cake. Store in the refrigerator. Yield: 12-15 servings.
Editor's Note: This recipe does not use eggs.
Originally published as Homemade Chocolate Cake in Quick Cooking December 2000,http://hostedmedia.reimanpub.com/TOH/Images/Photos/37/300x300/exps13276_QC10140C29D.jpg

IN A RELATIONSHIP?


The most important factor in a relationship is TRUST!
Relationships are always tough, and things don’t get any easier as time goes on. You don’t get any better at it just because you’ve been on the job longer. With most long-term relationships there are going to be periods of misunderstandings along the way. Wandering eyes can also become a problem when anyone spends the bulk of his time with just one person. The most important thing is to be aware of the inevitable  moments of doubt, and to make a plan to counteract them. Just because you’ve been together a long time doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun being in the relationship.

Of course, the key ingredient to any satisfying relationship is to be in love and that’s something I can’t guide you on. However, I can give you the following 4 ways to keep a long-term relationship interesting through even the most trying times


 4 KEY WAYS TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Hold hands, hug and give quick kisses often. Nothing is as good for the soul and the emotional health of a person as the human touch. As teenagers, we hold hands, give quick kisses as hello and goodbye and cuddle as we sit close. Why not keep that sense of youth no matter how old we are or how long we have been have together as a couple?Holding hands keeps a connection and closeness, no matter what we are doing. An enthusiastic hug uplifts us; a quick kiss says “glad to see you”.

 2. Date often. Make dates and anticipate them with excitement. Dress up and look your best. Discover a new cologne or perfume. Set the stage as if you are trying to “impress” the way you did at the beginning of the relationship. If your budget limits you to a rental movie at home, change it up. Set out cheese and crackers instead of the usual popcorn. Turn off the lights and let your fireplace illuminate the room. No fireplace? Candles do just as well. The point is to set the atmosphere of a date. The desire to look your best, feel your best and have the best time possible will rejuvenate those feelings of a first date. 

3. Write love letters. There is nothing like the power of the written word. The idea that a person would sit and attempt to convey their feeling through words is not only a heart warming gesture, but one that can be renewed over and over again through each reread. When you need an emotional lift, you can revisit them and instantly get the emotional recharge. Rereading a partner’s love letters instantly brings you to the intensity when the relationship was young. Writing letters throughout the relationship tells your partner those feelings are still alive and well. 

4. Make love often  with passion. The beauty of a long term sexual relationship is that the intimacy builds over the years." Make the intimate part of your relation a high priority. Make time for “love sessions." Take time to “make love”. Use candles, perfume, or whatever that is that get your juices flowing. Like all else in life, intimacy dies if it is not nourished. Feeding it with affection, compliments and time will make it something that feels less like an obligation at the end of a hard day, but something to look forward to.

That Special Thing

There are many things that can make you smile but there are a few that would cause you tears but a million more smiles after those tears.
That special thing that gives non particular reason for your smiles and would never let you go
That special things that makes your world like your dream come true
That one true thing that brings out that perfect smile
That thing that would never give you up to anybody
That special thing that turns the worst experiences, feelings and thoughts around and make them look like a night mare.
That special thing that cares about how you feel and what you desire!
That special thing that hold you tight with whatever is within its reach
One thing just one thing that would not rather die but strive for you both to live
That special thing that makes your world complete
That thing that would erase all the blemishes and burns of your heart
Just that special thing that would put your mind at rest and offer you a peaceful environment
That special thing! When the time comes
Only you can tell...

Thursday 19 December 2013

who can?

can you tell when you are in love?

HaStE..

Haste is a hurry!
Haste ignores a lot of things
Haste fails to stop and realize mistakes
Haste brings unexpected ends
Haste overshadows truth
Haste awakens anger
Haste means impatience
Haste is in all worthless because after every haste
you never enjoy what you where in a haste for until there is steadiness.

Feelings...

Your feelings are not truly yours but your environment to decide
Your feelings are only a test to prove who you are
Your feelings are but like your thoughts
Feelings cold destroy your emotions when you fail to realize that if you weren't in a situation you wouldn't feel that way
But if feelings are but like your thoughts, then your feelings can ruin you
Your feelings and thoughts are inter-related
If you don't think of something you wont feel a thing, but the moment the thought comes the feeling arises...

every one needs just a reason to...

Over 10 years..

Writing letters became the order of my day...

I dint believe people change or that love dies
I loved her and she loved me, we were play mates, party mates, food mates and we cared so much about each other. Most times we quarreled but they found a way to overcome it.

After college Jane told me she was leaving Australia to continue her study in Nigeria  leaving me behind. I couldn't stop her because her mum had made her decision and neither could I follow her because I  had nothing there for me nor anybody I knew.
But Jane had to go, so she left.. We used to chat via Facebook and I would call her and we would talk. she one day asked me "Tom are we ever going be together forever?" and I said " one day I would come get you and marry you" but I was just 21 and she was 18.

one Friday I got a per time job at a medical outlet and I wanted to tell her but her phone was switched  off so I decided to send her a message on Facebook which I did but there was no reply and I was a little worried. I sent another message to her telling her that I am ready to come over to spend time with her in Nigeria tat all I needed was her address but still no reply. I thought just maybe she wasn't allowed to access her Facebook anymore so I decided to mail her yet there was no reply and I was too worried.

But I still saw pictures of her on Facebook and I thought she probably dint have my time and its over a year since she left. so I decide to focus on my career for three (3) years I abandoned face book to pursue my career. when I was done with school I realized its been four years since I last spoke to Jane so I tried her number and mails again but to no avail. I was at work one Saturday night and I bumped into her old friend who gave me Jane's address.
When I got back home I decided to send letters everyday in a year to the address I was given and I did that for another 6 years telling her how I missed her and that I hadn't forgotten my promise to marry her and that if I had offended her I was sorry.

i got an alert on my phone one afternoon from Facebook. A good looking guy as old as me who posted a picture of her saying "I miss you darling" and I thought oh! she probably is in love with someone else
but I was certain that she loved me, so I got a ticket to take me to Nigeria to find Jane. Wen I got to the address I used to send all those letters to I saw all my letters in the mail box.

I knocked and her mum opened her door, I asked "where is Jane" and she said she died 10yrs ago
Tom ran to the nearest bus stop took a taxi to the airport and traveled back to Australia and said to himself "this must be a Joke!"

CHRISTMAS PACKAGE!

After a Sunday service on the 24th of December 1980.

Mrs Caroline had a wonderful day at the Church, she strolled back home with her friends there was just five of them and they all had lunch at Mrs Caroline's house. just as they were eating and cracking jokes the door bell rang at exactly 4:15pm. Caroline wasn't expecting a visitor at that time.

she headed for the door and when she opened the door she there was no one. she stepped out a little and looked towards her left and she saw a huge package. she reached for it and realized it was addressed "a gift from your love" and she smiled saying this must be Dickson my husband. she dragged it in and showed it to her friends and they all teased her. and it was time to go home so they all left Mrs Caroline's house happy and full of merry.

That evening Mrs Caroline was filled with so much joy as she waited for the arrival of her children Jamey, Fred and Sally. it was 5:30pm and she became worried, her children were not back so she called her husband but his phone was switched off as expected he must be piloting! Mrs Caroline then called her friend Mrs Pat and told her she was worried and sad. Mrs Pat asked her to come over so they could both go to the airport and find out what went wrong.

it was 8:00pm Mrs Caroline and Mrs Pat headed for the airport on getting there they were told that her children's flight had arrived an hour and half ago. so Mrs Pat consoled her and told her to go home that they are probably waiting for her at home. so they both went to Caroline's house. just at the door step of the house Caroline saw 4 extra packages but she was so unhappy to smile and this time the packages were not addressed. Mrs Pat assisted her to drag them in.

she was astonished by what she saw! her house was beautifully decorated, Christmas balls everywhere, huge white Christmas trees at the corner of the house, and a dinner table set, she saw a letter on the table in it was written Happy Christmas Eve. Mrs Caroline thought; Oh! this must be my amazing kids. Her heart was filled with so much joy, her heart beat ran faster her blood pumped love that her eyes couldn't hide

Hurriedly Mrs Pat called the rest of her friends to come see the biggest surprise for Christmas. Now Mrs Caroline had 5 packages to herself. so her friends decided to help Caroline unpack the gifts so they told her to turn around and she did. suddenly her friends screamed! and Carline turned back to see what it was as she knelt down in tears as her heart beat even faster she had seen the head of her husband Dickson and her children Jamey Fred and Sally it was exactly 12:00am and in the last box was a note in it was written Merry Christmas...