WHAT ABOUT THEM?

Has anyone ever pondered about the feeling of those that are gone? We weep over them because we feel pain, don’t they feel pained too? We only look at the version of those that can express their grief, but the dead cant, even if they do we can’t see it.

It’s not just about the bereaved what about the “deceased”?

Think of the grief this way: they have been detached from the multitude of those they love, but we are still here and can still connect with each other. So who deserves to be sad the most? 

Let us think about them… we don’t even know where they are; are they safe? Are their spirits at rest? Do they need us to intercede for them? Do we pray? What do we do?

Let us not forget that we still need to pray. We need to pray for them, that even after death they find comfort because we are still in comfort. The best we can do is, dry our eyes and be fervent in our prayers for them to be happy wherever they are.

Yes heaven is real! Hell too is real. We can’t tell who is and who is not in there. We can only intercede that their souls and spirits arrive home safely.

When we weep over them over again, do we ever consider if we bother their spirits? Have you ever wondered what crying over a dead soul means? Do we even know if we are their discomfort in their strive to rest? What do we know?

The dead… what about their bridged dreams?

When we cry over them; don’t you think we serve as constant reminders that they are dead? No one likes to be reminded of things that make them sad, so let us stop reminding ourselves even those that are gone. I would never say to anyone, let us forget them; it would be unrealistic. I would say let us look back and smile with tears of joy, knowing we have bombarded heaven for answers to our prayers concerning the dead.

Please let us weep in sorrow no more. Let us stay happy. When you really love somebody, you would do anything to make them happy; those that are gone can’t make us happy anymore but we can.  Because when we are happy, they are happy too

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Be happy.