I WAS COUNSELLING A YOUNG LADY AND SHE TOLD ME SOMETHING I
AM PERMITTED TO SHARE.
She said…
“I am having issues with my studies because I have a
boyfriend and I can’t concentrate”
Do you want to know what I told her??
I asked her “would you date a dullard?” she said “when there
are nigga’s out there”
Then I laughed! I asked her if her boyfriend would date a
dullard. She defensively said “I am not a dullard”. I told her if she keeps to
her low grades then she will turn out to be one. I said to her “if your
distraction is your boyfriend it means you are trying too hard. Stop trying.
She had forgotten that pleasing him is not all about making him happy by
hanging out, but by topping her class and making him proud.
No relationship should make anyone fail; it should boost
your performance because it is worse to shame your man with your mental
capability than to disappoint him over an outing.
Girls… have you asked yourself if your man can take you on a
date with his friends? If no, check yourself. If yes, how would a dullard feel/
the bottom of the class girl feel if his friends happen to be in your
department and know your history??
Big shame!
A brilliant girl is a beautiful girl
Be brilliant and get beautiful.
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