What a hectic weekend!
Trust me, I have no time to breathe. I have been consumed by lots of activities that I fail to remember to catch up.
But there is an interesting discovery! Over time I have studied a prevailing act amongst women. Well let me call them ladies.
I love to call them ladies because it gives a feel of being classy I guess.
To be classy is not easy trust me. It is expensive! It is not common but it is earned. I'm trying to make something a bit clearer than what we understand. Many today feel to be classy is to be flashy, but that is the wrongest rhyme to ever make sense.
Have you tried wearing your Pyjamas to a mall and a simple flip flop with your hair packed? Or okay let me say, have you dressed as simple as jeans and top with no makeup to see a movie?
We might want to lie or dodge but would you deceive yourself even if anyone would deceive you?
Okay this is why I asked...
It has become so difficult to embrace ourselves without an additional "outlook" Many ladies believe when they are loud with makeup and bogus earrings they are fancied and not fashied. They feel they are the spot on for the guys and would be chased after. But I'm willing to tell you that you are living in a fools paradise. I should be sorry for what I said but I need you to wake up from your sleep.
A thousand of men are aroused when they see utmost confidence in a woman. A study showed that 85% of men are aroused by a ladies confidence in herself. Just the way you carry yourself, your body language, your way of communicating and your simple smile works the magic! But rather, you wear makeup to feel comfortable and begin to walk like a street girl and jamming your jaws to chew gum and carrying your baked face and you know what that attracts? A man with a lose cash.
Who is a man with a lose cash?
A man that will pay for your movie, take you out to eat anything in your tiny world, and of course spend his time with you if he can spare that. Are those what you desire the most? Movie & food?
when I listen to a girl tell me he really spent on me and I ask what he did for her, the answers are originally sad. It's sad to hear he bought me "a lot" I mean I ate and ate and ate.
What did it take him? You feel on top of our world for little things because indeed you are cheap. And you spread out for him because of the feeling of "he's a rich guy"
Now this is my point..
Spreading out isn't a bad idea I must say. Spread it because you want to have fun and you want a great sensation. Don't put a price over it but rather put a high expectation of sensation over it. So don't sweat it looking all baked and all dressed up because being classy can't be hidden in any shade or style you put on.
Learn to be classy.
In my next post I'd tell you how to be a classy lady without unnecessary attitude.
