TIME

Am not here to tell you or anyone what time is because am only going to tell you what I think time is.

Many check what the time reads when they wake up in the morning or check it when they are late for a class, but few check the time to know how much value has been wasted or how much has been added. We only view or describe time in normal terms, but literally time is a guide. Time is a measure of progress and a highlighter of waste.

Time does not prompt us, it only brings reality to our understanding.

There is one other thing I believe time does… in the normal saying time separates people, time changes people, and time runs. But really that is what we think of “time” not what it is. We don’t see the benefit of time but only the havoc it causes. In fact time causes no havoc! It cannot be delayed, it does not stop ticking, it is not a principle of time, it is normal, it is natural. And since we all aware why can’t do we fall victim?

I remember I mentioned time changes people… I don’t think time changes anyone you know why? Time has no power to; I would prefer we say the effect of the nature of time causes people to change. Time does not go back so feelings fade if kept undernourished, people mature and get enlightened, we meet people and make new friends, that is why when there is a loss of someone we cry, we come to realization and then we move on.

Many still do not believe that time does not change us but let me explain better. We forget that it is natural for humans to change, or that it is normal that we get to adjust. Human beings adapt! If you say “she is my good friend” and now it is “we used to be good friends” whatever happened was not time it was probably space or distance or fake friendship. If you used to be lovers and are no more lovers, it could be you both found different preferences or you wanted something new.

We also forget that time builds bonds…

Every time we spend with loved ones are always remarkable.

Has anyone ever wondered “why do I always want to be with her?” it is not just because you love him or you love her but because either you know it or not you are building a strong relationship, you are investing time. Now would someone agree with me that time invested is productive and not just destructive?

Well like I said, to “me” time is a guide!