Wednesday, 8 February 2017

How To Be Classy!

It's exciting to know you're interested in this article.


Just as I promised to discuss how to be a classy woman and how men can spot a classy woman, I have put "a few" things together for you. Read and do list below who you think a classy woman is.

Being a lady is to show that you have a great attitude with good manners and being a classy lady is having good manners with class and a highly valued dignity without unnecessary negative behaviors i.e being a snub, being rude or ignorant.
One thing you must know is that being classy has nothing to do with how well you ignore people or what your purse is reading funny enough it's not even about your beauty. When you are classy your inner beauty surfaces, it wears above your physical beauty and that's what people see.

In my last post I was somewhat pissed, well merely thinking about how ladies think up in their heads about what classy is and what classy is not.
But just not to be further upset but to bridge the gap between what classy is and what classy is not?


Honestly I guess we have to figure this out together. Let's start listing our thoughts below and I can draw out a write up pretty soon
But first answer to yourself the questions below and I'd be hanging in here for your comments. Let's share our opinions...


  • Do you have a fairly approachable attitude?
  • Do you get uncomfortable walking alone?
  • Do you pretend to know something when you seem not to?



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How To Be Classy!

It's exciting to know you're interested in this article.


Just as I promised to discuss how to be a classy woman and how men can spot a classy woman, I have put "a few" things together for you. Read and do list below who you think a classy woman is.

Being a lady is to show that you have a great attitude with good manners and being a classy lady is having good manners with class and a highly valued dignity without unnecessary negative behaviors i.e being a snub, being rude or ignorant.
One thing you must know is that being classy has nothing to do with how well you ignore people or what your purse is reading funny enough it's not even about your beauty. When you are classy your inner beauty surfaces, it wears above your physical beauty and that's what people see.

In my last post I was somewhat pissed, well merely thinking about how ladies think up in their heads about what classy is and what classy is not.
But just not to be further upset but to bridge the gap between what classy is and what classy is not?


Honestly I guess we have to figure this out together. Let's start listing our thoughts below and I can draw out a write up pretty soon
But first answer to yourself the questions below and I'd be hanging in here for your comments. Let's share our opinions...


  • Do you have a fairly approachable attitude?
  • Do you get uncomfortable walking alone?
  • Do you pretend to know something when you seem not to?



tel:08083145834


Saturday, 28 January 2017

I CALL IT LOSE CASH

What a hectic weekend!
Trust me, I have no time to breathe. I have been consumed by lots of activities that I fail to remember to catch up.

But there is an interesting discovery! Over time I have studied a prevailing act amongst women. Well let me call them ladies.
I love to call them ladies because it gives a feel of being classy I guess.

To be classy is not easy trust me. It is expensive! It is not common but it is earned. I'm trying to make something a bit clearer than what we understand. Many today feel to be classy is to be flashy, but that is the wrongest rhyme to ever make sense.

Have you tried wearing your Pyjamas to a mall and a simple flip flop with your hair packed? Or okay let me say, have you dressed as simple as jeans and top with no makeup to see a movie?
We might want to lie or dodge but would you deceive yourself even if anyone would deceive you?

Okay this is why I asked...
It has become so difficult to embrace ourselves without an additional "outlook" Many ladies believe when they are loud with makeup and bogus earrings they are fancied and not fashied. They feel they are the spot on for the guys and would be chased after. But I'm willing to tell you that you are living in a fools paradise. I should be sorry for what I said but I need you to wake up from your sleep.

A thousand of men are aroused when they see utmost confidence in a woman. A study showed that 85% of men are aroused by a ladies confidence in herself. Just the way you carry yourself, your body language, your way of communicating and your simple smile works the magic! But rather, you wear makeup to feel comfortable and begin to walk like a street girl and jamming your jaws to chew gum and carrying your baked face and you know what that attracts? A man with a lose cash.


Who is a man with a lose cash?

A man that will pay for your movie, take you out to eat anything in your tiny world, and of course spend his time with you if he can spare that. Are those what you desire the most? Movie & food?
when I listen to a girl tell me he really spent on me and I ask what he did for her, the answers are originally sad. It's sad to hear he bought me "a lot" I mean I ate and ate and ate.
What did it take him? You feel on top of our world for little things because indeed you are cheap. And you spread out for him because of the feeling of "he's a rich guy"

Now this is my point..
Spreading out isn't a bad idea I must say. Spread it because you want to have fun and you want a great sensation. Don't put a price over it but rather put a high expectation of sensation over it. So don't sweat it looking all baked and all dressed up because being classy can't be hidden in any shade or style you put on.
Learn to be classy.

In my next post I'd tell you how to be a classy lady without unnecessary attitude.

Wednesday, 11 January 2017

HOW TO LET GO OFF THAT MAN WHO DOESN'T WANT MY LOVE

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Hey guys!

Well just as I have promised to return to you today, I'm here doing just that. I wasn't too happy yesterday as I waited on all of your comments and there was none. Oh well I understand you all are busy and we all are trying to make ends meet and I hope someday when you wanna relax you'd decide to come here, read and inspire yourself. That would be my joy.

Alright this is what I successfully put together for you all.
Today is particularly centered on the ladies and very useful for the men as well. Because when I list out things ladies should do to let go off a man, well when you see this signs and you don't want her to let go? You need to react.

So just stay put and do pay attention.

These things may look like they're hard to do because you're in love. Believe me I've been hurt and I've lost count already. Many who know me closely ( I would love you all to know me closely) would wonder why I still crave love.

But this is what I do just because I want to keep enjoying the feeling love brings.
When a man makes me feel like shit? I take a nonjudgmental look at myself and I kick up my senses.

REASONS WHY I WONT LET A MAN OVER RIDE ME

  • I VALUE myself 
  • I THINK HIGH of myself
  • I AM PROUD to be who I am

But when these things go MIA? Which means missing in action. They will ride you like a donkey. And you will begin feel like the fault is in you.

But if by error you do not have high regards for yourself and you have let your man use you to rejection, there is a way. There's always a way out!

All you have have to do is ...

  • Realise he is hurting you.
  • Come to the realization that he knows you're weakly in love with him.
  • Tell yourself you won't continue to feel this way just because he knows you love him.
  • Now Remember how high you you think of yourself 
  • Bring back your lost self value 
  • Show yourself that you're proud of yourself
  • Now push him away
  • Let Him Go!


Please I beg you don't say it looks too hard. All you need is not to be hard on yourself. So please;

Go step by step
One by one and
Day by day

And you'd see how easy it can be.

Having done this?

You will then realize that you deserve more than you have been given and then your heart re opens to find that more you deserve so please don't shut your mind out of loving.

Open it WIDE.