Its ALL About US...: AND THIS IS MY STORY…

Its ALL About US...: AND THIS IS MY STORY…:   Mum! I can’t take this anymore; you can’t continue to control my life, after all you are living yours.   I want to be free to make d...

AND THIS IS MY STORY…

 

Mum! I can’t take this anymore; you can’t continue to control my life, after all you are living yours.  I want to be free to make decisions for myself. Mum broke down in tears “Sonia I just want the best for you”, “I am making the best in my own way mum” I replied, just give me a chance. Mum hugged me and said “I want you to be happy” and I would be mum, I replied.

Many years after I realized I should have let mum teach me what to do I was wrong, fun is not life. I thought I had the best friends in the world but I was just hoping I guess. I am Sonia Andrew,29years old, a pregnant non academic staff. I work at Federal Girls College and I am married to Victor Andrew. Yes Victor is a cab driver, as rickety and wobbly his legs are it was every body’s reason to laugh, but how could I even think of mocking? A man that rescued me from all the neglects and rejections, he put a smile on my face again even when I thought there was no one for me he chose me. *sobbing* He is my joy!

Victor’s funny walking steps brings out the sparks of cheerfulness in my eyes, in the next life victor would be my end and beginning.

Back in school I was not so popular but I wanted to be, so I walked in the steps of “the big girls”. I started smoking, drinking and using hard drugs because I wanted to be noticed. I formed my own clique “No business” and yes! Finally I was noticed, so much happiness I thought! I had started aborting, taking pills and I was getting sicker by the day. My friends kept hailing me and I was encouraged, but when I was expelled from school because I was pregnant for the 15^th time, they all left me “FRIENDS”. I was lonely nowhere to go mum had died 2 years ago because she had cancer and there was never a dad! No relative, no friends, no body to care.

Then I met Victor… he was at the car park as busy as the road was, he rushed me to the hospital at the time of my delivery, but sadly I had a miscarriage. I wanted to go back to school after everything but there was no money, Victor was interested in me, I noticed. But he wasn’t my type, he advised me, fed me, gave me a roof over my head, gave me attention, he knew my story and he said "Sonia I want to give you a happy end" and indeed he gave me laughter! He was an amazing guy, I was in love I couldn’t believe it!

Well here I am married to Victor carrying his baby, and we happy together. After this baby is born am going back to school! I am Sonia Andrew and this is my story…

OBEY...

Many of us don't know how much it pays us to be obedient, to listen and to wait!
Our parents might be pushing it all hard on us to make sure we come out as good people. But think about it if they don't know what is right they wouldn't say. They have been through all this before and they know what it feels like, and because of the so much love they have for us they strive to guide us, and make us better people than they are!
Obedience is not easy because we all want to explore and enjoy, but not all explorations and enjoyments are true! they are not real, they are not bridges they are traffics, they are hurdles.
That is why many people (youths) have high hurdles because they choose to "explore and enjoy" and the others have mere hurdles of life and get to cross over it in time.
See when you obey: 1. you avoid trouble
                                  2. you put a smile on your mums face and even dad
                                  3. Better things to do with your time
                                  4. You become disciplined
                                  5. Joy from within
Just Obey!

When you CRy

when we cry, we let go!
what exactly are we letting go?
we letting go off pains... when we cry we grow stronger, we become smarter
we become ready for any challenge. Because we have reasoned.
When a tear drops the heart is in pains, the heart needs comfort, the heart needs love. it has just been hurt..
Who bruised your heart doesn't mean, who hurt your heart doesn't mean, we cry so that whoever we love that might have hurt us, we wont loose them because we are hurt, but we would forgive them because we love them. And let go off our pains and hold on to those than can help us take them away even if they might have hurt us.
We cry when we love, we cry because we want a change, we cry because we don't like what we're going through. we cry sometimes because it was actually painful...
Life might not offer us the best, let's offer ourselves the good out of life, how?
Let us cry out our pains and carry on...