WHY I WONT DATE A MARRIED MAN

He's spying on me

I am not afraid to get involved with a married man even if he has 12 kids or even if he has been married for 20 years or more. All of that won’t scare me or make me not love a man that can give me all I want and take care of me.

The truth is; many women these days look for men who will spend heaven on earth, give them the best, the latest, the most classy but why do they need all of this? I’ll tell you what I think. Today, women, many of them take pleasure in showing off, or letting the world know what they’ve got.” Thanks” to snapchat for actually making this people be who they are not. But that’s not what I’m here to chat about.

The question is if a married can take care of all my needs why then won’t I date him if I claim having 12 kids doesn’t change anything.

I will tell you why…

What if I fall in love with not just his money but with him? What if I love him genuinely and don’t want to continue sharing him? And then he tells me the obvious “you know I am married” or he tells me what I’d like to hear “I will divorce my wife” you really think he’s gonna do that by snapping his fingers? Or you think it is that easy if he is married to a woman who wouldn’t stop praying?

Honestly, why I won’t date a married man is simple, short and understandable. I CAN NOT BEAR THE EMOTIONAL DAMAGE, TORTURE… AND PAIN. I can’t bear to love a man who I cannot have next to me at any time of the day or night. What if I wake up with a terrifying dream who do I hold tight? a man that is cuddling his wife? Or a man that will turn to me and say “tell me about it” because he is mine?

The worst thing to ever waste your time on is a heart that isn’t yours and a home that you can’t have. But then, this man may actually prefer you to his wife for some good or flat reasons and he could decide to abandon the home he has built just to make you happy… But you do not realize that or you haven’t realized yet that for a man to walk out of his marriage he has no sense of value for commitment and he would walk out on you too. Maybe not while you’re still young and juicy but when you turn 30 maybe 40 if your jaz is mighty.

Please don’t pet yourself by saying “it will last” after the struggle to get him because the only thing that last forever is Gods’ will. And it was Gods’ will you dared to break and He will punish you for it. If you’re dating a married man it’s good for you. Ensure you don’t break his home tho just realize the right way before its late otherwise be the super glue in their relationship.

I don’t judge people.

I am not perfect..