Stages In A Relationship (Vol I)

1.       THE HAPPENING STAGE:  This is the stage that welcomes couples into a relationship. This stage is where different promises are made as a "show off" of love. This is a stage where couples can’t go to bed without a phone to call even after they must have had several chats the whole day. This stage brings the absolute joy anyone can have in a relationship. Moments shared here are forever cherished. For a serious relationship this stage could last for close to a year or approximately one year.

2.       THE QUAREL STAGE: This stage portrays nature. No one is perfect and so there are little quarrels bound to happen. The quarrels are usually misunderstandings and over reactions. One party might misinterpret the words of the other party and a quarrel starts. Quarrels do not last for more than 10minutes (sincere relationship). It is psychologically! When you haven’t heard or not at peace with the one person you deeply care about, your mind and body slows down because a huge space has been created. This stage is a stage that tells us how much we love our partners.

3.       CONFESSION STAGE: This stage is dawned when we realize we are able to tell our partners everything. It could be how you felt when it all started. It could be ways you have hurt each other. It could be something that could break the relationship. It is also about telling your partners how you feel sexually and both try to resolve things (depending on their future plans). If things that could break the relationship are shared and yet the relationship is not broken then you will agree with me that the relationship is true.

 

The remaining stages would be conveyed to you later. Relationship is not a joke only if we take it as one. Any relationship we build with our hearts can last longer than we imagine, all we have to do is be ready.

Thank you as you check back for the remaining stages