There are somethings we CANT just control

We all want something
We all desire one thing
But the truth is that no matter what we want
something's are beyond our reach...

There are aspects in life that we need others to help get there
not because we can't get there but we can't do it on our own.
we can't be the orderer of everything.
Most people are wise you know why?
They figure out what it is they want and knowing well they cant reach
it for themselves they employ others who will
That is wisdom!
We all desire to be great people
We all want to be recognized
We all want to be loved
But no! even at this you should understand
that not everything is under your control

We sometimes fail to realize that we might be desperate
but we not the only one's
We are ready to make it
but there are many others
We want to bring about a change
but others want that too

What matters most is our ability to bring our dreams
into reality. Only those who are capable would be remarkable!

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I thought i could be yours...but i was wrong!

Now Maggie got to understand that being popular doesn't mean you get all you want.
Maggie was a very popular girl in college, everyone knew her for her social life and her friendly personality, she was almost every guys dream.

Maggie was loved by many and found favor among her friends and socio-mates they saw her as been pompous but not until this very day it was discovered that she was in love.
There was this guy named Jim he was not socially recognized but he was recognized by Maggie
Jim admired Maggie so much but he thought "she is way above me"

On a faithful Tuesday night she was partying and Jim happened to be there. Maggie purposely danced towards where Jim was and with her dance Jim couldn't bare to watch and not dance.
Maggie's moves were so tempting that Jim couldn't bear he was weak by her seduction, but what could he do? all he did was to put a smile on his face and stare...
But no! this is not what Maggie wanted but she went home sad and worried, thinking "why wont he say something? does he like me? am I just being to forward? am I in love?"

It was vals day and as usual Maggie got gifts and many lovers sending cards, cakes and even organizing parties and dinners for her but she wasn't satisfied.
Unknown to her Jim has planned to tell her how much he admired her and wanted her to be his girl though he knew it might be impossible.
Jim went to school as a happy boy and when he got to school he was with a rose in his hand. But on getting to school the first person he saw was Maggie.

Maggie was chilling with her friends as they all laughed at each others jokes but as she saw Jim her heart melted with a feel of cold ice. But Jim's mind was set to approach her so he beat his fears and walked up to her with the rose as he smiled.
Maggie's friends laughed in sarcasm at Jim even before he got there and they said he must be a joke to himself! Still he walked and stood in front and stretched out his hands.
Maggie was in shock! while her friends laughed out loud and he felt embarrassed because she was still in shock and did not collect the rose.

Jim turned his back to leave saying to himself "I knew it!"
Maggie stood up and RAN after him called him and said Jim you can be my val...
And Jim to his biggest surprise he hugged her and said "thank you"
Deep within her she was so happy and couldn't explain it, her friends were amazed and thought "oh she just pitied him" But Maggie knew what she wanted.

And of course he asked her out on a low-key and she accepted to date him. After college they had gone deep in their relationship even so that she told him her worst moments and her secrets, secrets she could share with no one because she saw a future in him. Yea they got closer but Jim drew farther, he was falling in love with someone else.
One Saturday night when Jim got back to the apartment were they lived Maggie had stood up all night waiting for him, so when he arrived she asked him where he was all night. And Jim said "Maggie I have been seeing someone else am sorry I think I only admired you and wanted to be a friend not a lover, now you know please move on we are done!"

Maggie fell to her knees and begged but he's mind was solidly made.

What i want...

I don't just want you telling me stories I want you to tell
me what made it a story
I don't just want u to tell me about your life but why your life turned out that way
I don't just want to know that you love me but why you do
I don't just want to know that you are here for me but to see you here
I don't just want to be happy but to make you happy
I don't want all the attention but I want most of it
I don't want you to be upset but I want you smiling
I don't want to get upset so do what I want

What I always want could be overwhelming but at least try
show me that you mean to make me happy
I could be a little demanding but that's just me
don't be upset because I want you to be happy too

FAcTS AboUT MeN

1. Sadly!  men do not factor in their own attractiveness when assessing their chances of success with a beautiful woman.

2. They aspire to date people who are slightly more attractive than themselves, but at least be presentable

3 Oh yes! men love ladies with high cheek bones, big eyes and a thin jaw.
Ladies no surgery please..

4. wow! some men prefer even younger facial appearance as it stimulate emotions of caring and protection.
So ladies if you have been jumping in that gym trying to loose weight just make sure those developed muscles and are hidden

5. Who says only ladies ass counts? most men usually like big breasts and hips as it possibly linked to the ability to bare and nurture offspring. But yes!full buttocks and a wide waist send out the same message

OOpsss...a larger waist was viewed by males as meaning the woman was more faithful and kind and a woman with a smaller waist was judged as being more aggressive and ambitious.
  by:    Dr Devendra Singh from the University of Texas..

NOTE: Dr Michael Cunningham of Elmhurst College, Illinois found that if a male is judging a female in an interview for a job, a woman with expressive eyebrows and dialated pupils has the edge and is likely to be considered more competent. The same features would not be judged as attractive if the same man was looking for a mate. Cunningham also found that attractive women with mature features, such as small eyes and a large nose, received more respect from men.

Love Fact

You cant love me and hate me, you can only love me and get jealous

You cant love me and deny me, you can only love me and protect me

You cant love me and not spend on me, you can only love me and give what you have

You cant love me and not talk about it, you can only love me and show it

THE MAJOR FACT ABOUT LOVE IS THAT YOU CANT HIDE IT!

ZODIAC

JuST HoLD on

Times may be hard, things may not be as you expected
but don't forget we have probably gone a long way back...

I might be at fault you may be at fault too
but we sure can settle this

Good times can't be washed away like that
I want you and we can work things out

People say not every thing can be sorted out but we can work towards it
all I need you to do is to hold on! Tell me my flaws and I would make
them my strength.

Tell me my errors and I would re-write the scripts
All I want is for you to wait a little longer
I could make it up
Just HOLD ON..

Why are we honest?

We can only be honest when we tired of running

We can only be honest when we need help

We can only be honest when we love each other

We can only be honest when we realize that,

the truth is our best and only excuse...

Honesty is not bought it is derived,
It is not seen it is tested
It is not overlooked it is appreciated

Honesty is not simple it takes courage
It is not hard you just have to make up your mind
It is the one of the greatest reason people last together

Is it fun to be with friends?

Oh yes I think it is!
laying on a bed with my room mate,
we just cracking jokes and laughing at funny things.
Sometimes we could get on each other's nerves but hanging out
and doing stuff for each other is the best part of it...

Yes it is fun to be with friends because:

1. We learn

2. we forgive each other's mistakes

3. We wash away our loneliness

4. We make other friends

5. We help each other

Sometimes we cant deny that being with and around people that love you
puts that wide smile on our faces :D

10 common phobia's

while surfing the internet I found out something I want you all to see

 

1. Arachnophobia:

• The fear of spiders.
• This phobia tends to affect women more than men.

2. Ophidiophobia:

• The fear of snakes.
• Often attributed to evolutionary causes, personal experiences, or cultural influences.

3. Acrophobia:

• The fear of heights.
• This fear can lead to anxiety attacks and avoidance of high places.

4. Agoraphobia:

• The fear of situations in which escape is difficult.
• This may include crowded areas, open spaces, or situations that are likely to trigger a panic attack. People will begin avoiding these trigger events, sometimes to the point that they cease leaving their home.
• Approximately one third of people with panic disorder develop agoraphobia.

5. Cynophobia:

• The fear of dogs.
• This phobia is often associated with specific personal experiences, such as being bitten by a dog during childhood.

6. Astraphobia:

• The fear of thunder and lightening.
• Also known as Brontophobia, Tonitrophobia, or Ceraunophobia.

7. Trypanophobia:

• The fear of injections.
• Like many phobias, this fear often goes untreated because people avoid the triggering object and situation.

8. Social Phobias:

• The fear of social situations.
• In many cases, these phobias can become so severe that people avoid events, places, and people that are likely to trigger an anxiety attack.

9. Pteromerhanophobia:

• The fear of flying.
• Often treated using exposure therapy, in which the client is gradually and progressively introduced to flying.

10. Mysophobia:

• The fear of germs or dirt.
• May be related toobssesive compulsive-disorder.

12 things you do When you find out something strange about yourself

1. You think about it

2. You have this sense of guilt

3. You become very defensive

4. You do things to cover up or hide the way you feel

5. You really want to tell someone

6. You become scared

7. You lie

8.You listen to music that probably enlightens you Oh yes! you may write about it

9.You feel left out

10. You become nervous

11. You become depressed

12.You become ashamed.

But when there is something strange about you, you just got to say it no matter what!

WHO IS A FRIEND?

Who is that Someone that is always there for you even at all times and places?
Who is that faithful person that stays by you through out the day even up until night
and stays by your bedside and even watch you sleep.

Who is that person that cares so much about how you feel?
That person that doesn't disappoint you and keeps your appointment
That person that listens to all your worries and your complaints
That one person that can put a big smile on your face every time in all occasions?

I doubt if there is a friend like this!
But you know what? I found one faithful friend, that true friend that would never lie to me
nor make me cry or feel sad
That friend that always loves and cares for me unconditionally...

Guess what? My friend is "JESUS" in him there is comfort and guidance of my
journey in life
In my friend Jesus will I trust!

When YOu ASK GOD for somehting..

God is generous, He has everything you need
Some people say why wont God give them what they ask for

God has given you everything you ask for but you have refused to accept it
HOW?
When God stretches out His hand to give you what do you do?
you drift away from His hands
HOW? God cant stand sin! sin wont let you get close to Him
when His hands are out and your heart is filled with sin, sin leads you in the wrong direction.

All you realize is that you didn't collect what you asked for not that God didn't give you!
God is generous and His thoughts towards you are of good
All He wants is for you to be happy
Have you ever thought of making Him happy too?

He has done well by giving you what you ask for and what you didn't ask for
when last did you thank God for waking up peacefully?
At least not many remember to thank Him but yet He does that willfully because of His love for us
Its unconditional!!

I want us to ask God for one special thing that we so desire and consciously avoid sin and believe me
your request would lay in your hands...

DreaMS

as long as your days still count your dreams are ever possible!
not all those who have dreams have plans...

not all those who have dreams make it because they fail to plan or yes! they give up
you are too young too give up
and to old not to have made it!

no age denies you of your dreams
its either you don't have a dream or you have one

QuesTIONS YOu MUSt ASk yoUR SELF!

Am I normal?

What makes me different from others?

What is that secret about me I don't want anyone to know?

What do I want in life?

Is there a future from where I am today?

What is it I actually want?

Are there times when I feel guilty?

What am I hiding?

Do I love where I am?

Do I actually want a change?

And if I do what must I do to change... Think about it!

That's only if you care...

Treat people well that's all they want
Pay attention that's all they ask
Just be there...

show them love if you can
show them how much you care if that's possible
show them your world with them in it if they actually are there

Do all you can if you care
Because most times even after everything they fail to see it

The boy they call fish

http://youtu.be/JygUnTIjb90

9 FactS OF OUR EVERYDAY Life

1. you get upset at least once

2. you find someone attractive or that u admire

3.you get hungry

4.you use the internet

5.you call Jesus

6.you use a slang 'Shii, OMG, for real?, f***k off, oh boi..."

7. you think...

8. you tell a friend something new

9. you laugh and or smile

CHERISH.

Not until u need something u dnt realize the usefulness of it
The world is so large not to be a part of it
and also too large not to be noticed

People say "one day u might need me"
what do u tink of that?
well  if anyone tells you that, that doesnt mean they are the ones u actually need
it simply means that oneday u might need someone and there would be no one
because you pushed them away

you failed to cherish them!
you needed help but they are long gone
you cry out but your tears dint make their distance

instead of chasing them why not cherish them?
why not find a reason to make them stay?
why not think ahead of the now?

Cherish...

night thoughts...

Just sitting on my bed and so many thoughts running through my  mind
your day might have been amazing or prolly not!
all you do is sit back trying to sleep but those important thoughts wont give way for nature to take its place in time...

That part of your mind keeps reminding you of all you have done or should have done
At this moment some regret some rejoice
Some cry some smile
Some wish and dream while the others prolly have no conscience

I hope your thoughts teach you and not just keep you awake

u dont always have to blame mistakes...

sometimes we make mistakes that we wished it never happened
failing to realize if we dint make mistakes we neva would have learnt

yea! me especially I hate to make mistakes
and sadly I get to miss out
mostyms mistakes take out our boredom
u doubt?

ofcuz it takes out our boredom at least u were involved
at least u had experiences
at least u felt happy
at least u had your moments

Mistakes... sadly they were enjoyments or assumed enjoyments that turned out  bad...

Who ARE You?

No one knows you but tou
No one really understands you even you
People would take you for granted because they don't know you
People wouldn't value what you do because they are not used to valuable things

when people say shii about you its because they have lots in them
When people ignore you its because they aren't ready for fame
Don't be bothered about people, be bothered about you!
you know why?
Because when you become the real you all they want is to be you...

A beauTIFUl Nightmare...

Jane was in the middle of a forest after being abandoned by her hunt mates
when she woke up she found out it was just 2:45am.
The camp lights had gone off she was confused...

Jane got up to find rest as she approached a huge tree, she wondered! where could her friends be?
Suddenly fear ran through her veins, her heart was furious and filled with agony
Jane was in great distress.

Still it was still only 2:50am, she heard loud noises from a distance and she felt
her heart trip!
Now Jane assumed she might be asleep in the middle of another dream.

But to her reality someone grabbed her by her waist
and sudden tears ran down her cheeks, she felt her heart damped
and she thought "Oh this is the end"

She had been kidnapped or probably set up
but as she turned to find out what it was
it was the lover of her heart and he kissed away her fears...

The MIND Set...

the road looks so lonely     ------- but that's how you see it
the journey seems endless  ------- but that's what you think of it
why is it only me?              ------- you doubt!
when is it going to be over ------- you give up easily
is this possible?                  ------- you dont believe

TrUE FRIENDzz

True friends are not an option...
True friends are most tyms tasking
True friends hide no truth no matter what it is.
True friends always admit their faults in every of their actions
True friends are not necessary your neighbors which u get to see every second and minute in a day

You know why??
Because you never get to quarell with your frend cos ur frend knows not all about you
and would ever be willing to help you
True friends are blue-moon frends they come to you once in a while

Guess what??
the once in a while is always when you are in need the most!

Pain...

we sometimes wrongly us this word...
when u say pain what comes to your mind?
right now what comes to your mind must have bin altered because i just asked the question
but really:
pain is not when u hit your hand against something
pain is not when I hit you
pain is not having not seeing somebody
pain is letting go after a long wait!

whats on ur mind?

we all have things to reason about or worry about...
let me tell you mine first
1. I got to resume school and all I think of is a box with one way out in which u need a paper
to pass through to get out of that box
2. I  got this big dream I want to fulfill this year
So what's yours?

TODAYS MOTIVATION

you never know what life holds for you
you never can tell what tomorrow is gonna be like
all we can hope for is that out tomorrow would be brighter and better

we seem to joke with our today failing to realize we are lucky we part of the day
all we think of is let us enjoy today while its here
failing to realize our presence in tomorrow is largely determined by our today.

I got an advice for us today and that is we don't own our lives but we have our lives
no one can help make the best out of you only you
cos all they can do is to lead you rightly
So therefore its up to you, make the best the very best

a new year

everyone is saying new year new me but it is new year great changes
 can it be a new you wen no change occurs?
this year y not sit back and realize where u went rung and do tins differently this time
I think den u would make a better you

Honour

Honor is one thing I desire
I desire not riches nor wealth
I desire not fame
But honor, which singles me out
Honor is one thing that cannot hide itself once it is achieved
Once you become honorable you would find out that
you have got the riches, wealth and fame you were never obsessed for